Panhandler - for word lovers.

I have discovered that the origin of the term "panhandler" is not what the dictionary tells you.

It's actually a San Francisco term from the Gold Rush days. The term was tied to restaurant-owner Mink Dusenhoffer, who used the term in an angry public notice, warning them to stay away.

The original Panhandlers were unemployed men who had sought their fortune by panning for gold, but resorted to begging or worse when their fortunes were not found.

The origins of the word Panhandler is detailed in the book, American Myths and Legends Volume II, by Charles M. Skinner, J.B. Lipincott Company, Philadelphia & London, pub. Oct 1903. //// My personal interest in this word. My great great grandfather Josef Waizmann (born ca. 1803) was born in Pfannenstiel, near Aalen Germany, in present-day Baden-Wuerttemberg. Pfannenstiel means "panhandle" in English. The people in this village were populated by Yenish / Jenisch, a poor and unassimilated nomadic people with a reputation for thieving and begging. Later, Nazi German leadership compared them to gypsies. So, I when I had read of Mink Dusenhoffer, a German-American warning off "the panhandlers" in San Francisco, I thought there might be a connection, but that does not seem to be the case. Back in Germany, "Pfannestiel" refers to the local geographic area; it has no connection with the 1849 Gold Rush in San Fracisco.

Hauenstein Genealogy Breakthrough!

History and cousins!

My grandmother, Elizabeth Hauenstein, was only 17 when her parents died at ages 50 and 53. Among the four children, she was the only one to have a child - my dad - with children of his own. There were no cousins. Pretty much all we knew about Dad's Hauenstein grandparents was that they came from Switzerland, a couple stories and that they were poor.

Modern technology created breakthroughs.

First occured with a DNA test which matched me with a Hauenstein cousin in Switzerland. Her mom knew about us, and gave the name of the home town

The second thing was a hunch. I matched up the Hauenstein family name with the Swiss town name along with the words "Indiana" and "Ohio. " That's when I learned that other Hauensteins from that town had settled in this area.

The third thing I found was that the historic 1864 "Hauenstein Cider press" is located in Berne Indiana. It's the largest in the world, and only a 90-minute drive from Dayton.

I drove over to see it and experience Berne's Swiss Heritage Festival.

This was unexpected:

1) the 1864 Hauenstein apple cider press in operation for that day only! It was making cider for the festival.

2) Hauenstein family operating the press!

===> After decades of searching, I met my Hauenstein cousins, with an invitation to next year's family re-union!

Photos

1. The crest/symbol of the Aargau, the Swiss Canton (State) ancestral home of the Hauenstein family

2. Swiss Flag Berne, Indiana

3. "Command Central" of Swiss Heritage Days - little white house on the Swiss Heritage Museum grounds

4. Sign for the Hauenstein Cider Press - the world's largest

5. Squared off oak timber

6. world’s largest corkscrew

7. spare corkscrew, just in case

8. apples ready

9. more apples

10. interior view with wheatstraw

11. Hauenstein family at work

12. Decanting the cider

13. transferring apples

14. transferring apple squeezings

15. Coolest T-shirt of the day

JOHANN WAIZMANN / JOHN WAITZMAN: 

from Iron Miner to prosperous Beer Brewer

John Waitzman and his wife Katherine (nee Franz) in front of their house on Baltimore St. 

My Great grandfather Johann Waizmann / John Waitzman held the job title of "Engineer" for the Nick Thomas Brewery of Dayton Oh . The family story is that he was the "Brewmaster." Maybe it means the same thing?

In any case, it seems that he did pretty well; he hired a number of relatives and in-laws to work there. His home had one of the first flush toilets in the neighborhood; actually they plumbed the outhouse, and it was transformed into "the outhouse that flushed." He could afford the gold for his dental work; prominent gold teeth was considered a sign of wealth in those days. That's pretty good for a German immigrant who arrived in 1880, and had reached this level of success before the turn of the 20th century. His success - plus at least one documented return trip to Germany and back - must have influenced the other family members in Germany who ultimately came here.

Prior to landing this job at the brewery, he did odd jobs as a day laborer. Relying on his knowledge (and probably physical brawn) as a iron miner in Wasseralfingen (near Aalen) Germany, he worked at local Dayton iron foundries. One story is that he worked for Kramer Brothers Foundry, but that doesn't add up, as the KB Foundry dates back to 1895 when John had already been well-established at the Brewery.

Cast iron planter by Kramer Brothers Foundry, Dayton Ohio. We saw similar planters on display during our 2009 visit to Germany.

Old pre-Prohibition Nick Thomas beer bottle. Earlier versions used clear white glass and corks.

Nick Thomas Brewery in 1904. The family the story was that he would walk to the brewery after Sunday Mass at Holy Rosary Church to check on the place.

After the lifting of Prohibition, Nick Thomas beer brands came back after a number of business mergers and consolidations. That's all gone now, and the brewery facility was torn down.

It is now the year 2022: Some older folks (like, my age, who grew up in the 1950s-60s) might remember the huge billboard at the former brewery's location near Keowee and Springfield Streets that featured a giant 3D beer bottle. By the that time it was advertising a different brand of beer. I think it was Stroh's.

The Lost Wedding Ring

by Gray

This is my wedding ring.  When Marie and I became engaged, we wanted a unique, custom design of our own.  When set out to find someone to make them, we first asked an artist couple from our church.  The husband once ran a highly-regarded studio, and suggested one of his former students to us.

A Ring Maker and a Teller of True Stories

His name was Howard DuFour.  We went to visit him in New Carlisle, Ohio.  New Carlisle is a charming old town, where its history is carefully guarded.  Howard’s home was a distinctive 19^th century white wood frame house.  Howard himself was a delight, an older gentleman, a keen mind, and full of engaging stories. 

True story 1:  As we stood in front, he pointed to his house – “after it was built, there was never a four-letter word uttered in it by the first residents.  Now take a good look at the house.  What do you see?”  He was being playful with us, inviting us to think, and had given us a couple clues... Then he motioned to the pointed windows on the second storey, and gave us the answer: “See the churchy-looking windows?  (The windows come together to a point at the top.) The house served a small country church across the street.  It was originally a Parsonage.” 

He then invited us inside to see his work area.  We entered the living room, and walked upstairs, through his and his wife’s bedroom to a small attached sunroom.  He had a worktable pressed against the wall, looking out the window.  This was his shop. 

True story 2: He led into another story about a different goldsmith with his own tiny shop. The old goldsmith retired after many years, and moved out.  Wisely, the new owners tore up the carpet and wooden flooring and burned it all.  Then he quizzed us: So why was it wise?  He smiled and answered “Tiny gold flecks and shavings had fallen into the rug fibers and wood crevices over those years.  They recovered it and sold the gold for over a million dollars.”

A keen mind indeed. We were easily enamored of Howard, and looked forward to his workmanship.

The Rings Get Put to Use

A few weeks later, the rings arrived.  Beautiful!

On August 12, 1978, Marie and I were wed, we exchanged those rings, each of us committed to wear them for the rest of our lives.  

Marie and Gray exchanging rings.  August 12, 1978

Except for a problem...They were a little loose.

This was not a good fit to everyday life.  If I shook my hand a certain way, the ring would fly off.  Increasingly, I would decide to remove the ring.  When working on the car, or cutting the grass, I would hang them on a cup hook behind the mirror-case in the bathroom.  I’d often leave the sliding panel a little open. Marie would see that ring hanging on a hook instead of on my finger.  When I showered, the ring would hang on it – if dropped, the tub drain in our old place was large enough to swallow it. If I would go out camping or backpacking, the ring would stay home because I wouldn’t want to drop it somewhere in the deep woods. 

Whatever my reasons for doing this, it was our first year of marriage, and this ring business evolved into a touchy issue.  Finally, one week-end at home, my wife looked at my naked hands and confronted me with: “Why aren’t you wearing your wedding ring?”  Then I was reminded by my wife on an important perspective.  The ring was meant to be worn all the time.  She was right.

In response, I wrapped some white medical bandaging tape onto the ring to make the opening narrower.  That did the trick. I stopped removing the ring, and it wasn't much of an issue anymore.

Then Came Wonderful News

In May, 1979, on Mother’s Day, Marie first suspected she was pregnant. It was true! We thought through a number of names and had settled on two: 

If a boy, his name will be Micah.

If a girl, her name will be Sarita. 

Bad News – Ring goes missing

Then one Summer day, Marie was unhappy and upset.  “Gray, I’ve lost my ring!”  She had looked at her hand, and realized it was gone.  She had no idea how it was lost. We scoured the house in all the usual places: among the seat cushions, the trash cans, behind furniture, in dishes and kitchen utensils – anyplace one would imagine a loose ring might somehow fly or fall from a person’s hand. We found nothing.

So what do we do now? Get another ring?  Marie did not want to do that.  A prayer to Saint Anthony, the patron saint of lost items?  Many in Marie’s family did exactly that. 

Weeks passed, then months.  Still no ring.

We ask the Psychic

My sales job required me to drive a lot of distance, so the car radio would be on a lot.   I stumbled onto a regular call-in program on WLW radio that featured a psychic known as David Hoy.  He really seemed to be on to something.  One had called in about a missing item.  The excited responses from the live callers were riveting.  At the end of the program, radio listeners were invited to send in questions for a small fee, and he would do individual psychic readings. 

I told Marie.  We really weren’t into psychics, and doubtful.  But we’ve tried so many things, and it had been months since we lost the ring.  It would be so good if she could be wearing it while the baby is born.

So this was no small decision for us: The Hoy organization mailed to us the sign-up info on David Hoy, then we sent in $25 for an answer to a simple question:  Where do we look for the wedding ring? 

The reply arrived in a couple weeks.

“Dear Gray and Marie,

I have concentrated on your question and have gotten this image.  I believe that Marie lost her ring somehow while she was undressing, and that it had fallen into a boot or a shoe.  I feel very strongly about this, and would appreciate it if you let me know if you had found the ring upon receiving this letter.” 

ESPecially yours,

Dr. David Hoy

This was great!  Marie had dress boots, including some that she might not have worn over the summer.  We dug through each pair.   And …weeks later, we were still looking through the boots and shoes, and shoeboxes and anything that might be near them. 

On August 12, 1979, Marie and I celebrated our first anniversary.  We went to Joe's Fish house for dinner, and later visited with Marie's parents to enjoy the top layer of our wedding cake.

On our first anniversary, Marie was five months pregnant, and no wedding ring

The baby is coming and we stop looking 

Winter came, then January.  Marie’s due date approached, and we had shifted the focus to the important topic of her pregnancy.  Many an evening was spent on the couch, with Marie or me reading literature about a baby stuff: pregnancy, birthing, prenatal care, infant care, and more: there are plenty of questions from first time parents.

One evening, January 31, 1980 to be exact, as I sat next to her, Marie said, “I don’t feel like reading tonight.  I am going to catch up with some knitting.”  She dumped out the contents of a white paper bag of yarn, knitting needles and a pattern – and something else.  It glistened.  She said excitedly, "Could it be? It is! My ring!"

We hugged. Sort of. Marie was practically dancing.   

The next evening, she went into labor.

The following morning, February 2, 1980, our first child was born.

The baby’s name is Sarita.

As seen in the delivery room: Mom, newborn baby girl Sarita and wedding ring.

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Epilogue

1.      The Goldsmith who worked on the Manhattan Project

A few weeks later, we paid a visit to Howard.  He seemed embarassed by our story, and quickly agreed to resize the rings.  He called it an easy job and, of course, no charge.  If you look closely in the first image, you can see the join mark.

January, 2011.  I did a internet search on his name to make sure of the spelling, and found this biography of this amazing man.  In our short visits, we only heard two true stories; it turned out that he had many more.

News Death Notice DUFOUR, Howard R. 94, of New Carlisle, Ohio passed away Sunday December 13, 2009. He was born January 10, 1915 in Connersville, Indiana the son of the late Lawrence & Fern (Bush) DuFour. He worked on the Manhattan Project in Chicago and was instrumental in developing the Atomic Bomb. He also authored a book with Peter Unit on Charles E. Taylor the (Wright Brothers Mechanician). Building the 1903 Wright Flyer for Wright State University was a lifelong dream fulfilled for Howard. In the years following the building of the flyer, Howard continued to amaze everyone with his energy, ability with tools, and love of life. He and his dedicated group of volunteers built three Wright gliders after the 1903 flyer. He also found time to travel around the country teaching people about Charlie Taylor, a man who possessed qualities that he loved best and had himself: curiosity, ingenuity, and an inventive spirit. Howard DuFour never met a stranger. He greeted everyone with a hug and became their friend after the first hello. He was a member and High Priest at the Church of Latter Day Saints, Huber Heights, OH. He was a retired master machinist from Monsanto and created the DuFour Machine Shop at Wright State University. He is survived by a son, Larry (Karen) DuFour of North Carolina; daughter, Jenny (Chuck) Clevell of New Carlisle; grandchildren, Lorrie DuFour, Kevin & Jason Dufour, Kurt Hodge & Ami Holbrook; six great grandchildren; and great great grandchildren; and many friends. In addition to his parents, he is preceded in death by his wives, Opal Marie & Ruth Elizabeth. Howard's wish was for a graveside service only which will be held at 11 a.m. Thursday December 17, 2009 at New Carlisle Cemetery. Arrangements by the TROSTEL, CHAPMAN, DUNBAR & FRALEY FUNERAL HOME, New Carlisle, Ohio, 11545 Musselman Rd.. In lieu of flowers memorial contributions may be made to the Wright State University Archives. Expressions of sympathy may be sent towww.trostelchapman.com

2.      The Psychic

In our case, David Hoy’s response seems off-the-mark. Or was it? His reply DID give us hope, and diverted us from a decision to get a replacement ring.

From MagicPedia:

"Dr. Faust / David Hoy (1930- April 2, 1981) Hoy was an ordained minister who started out using magic to illustrate concepts in the bible. After leaving the ministry he moved on to performing mentalism as Dr. Faust. He invented many clever and original mental effects, many using very bold tactics (like tossing a force deck out to the audience to peek at a card). Later in life, he represented himself as a genuine psychic, relying on institutions and perceptions. He claimed to use extrasensory perceptions helped him locate everything from lost rings to runaway children. He also made predictions for a weekly column that appeared in 340 newspapers."







The Saint


St. Anthony of Padua is venerated all over the world as the Patron Saint for lost articles, and is credited with many miracles involving lost people, lost things and even lost spiritual goods.

WELL-INTENDED MISTAKES AND PITFALLS

Learn these so you don't do the same 

by Gray 

If you are an experienced genealogist, then you have graduated way-y-y-y past these mistakes. As for me, the mistakes below are mine.  I own them. 

I.  INTRODUCTION

Uh-oh. Not safe to assume that other people's family trees are correct.

At the start, you should assume their research contains errors, and their work is not "the answer," so much as it is "useful." Think like a detective: Unless you can prove this information on your own, you are wise to keep your doubts.  Vet every bit of data you get rigorously.  

source:wikipedia

Errors I have made and have seen would make for a long list.  Some biggies include 

1) placing absolute trust in impeccable sources, 

2) conflating people together, 

3) attributing family stories to the wrong branch, and 

4) processing information (like old European political geography) through the lens of our own modern times.  

II. STORIES

Consider that Great Story

Keep in mind that a story is just a "story."  It's a great start.  Still, you are searching for the Truth, which is often different, surprising, increasingly fascinating, and sometimes really delightful!  

Some Stories are Tall Tales.  Truth can reside more in the fun if not the facts.

As an adult, I have come to the bemused conclusion that, despite his claims, my great great father (he was called Grosspop) was not really a part of the Kaiser's personal guard.  On the other hand, the fact that he told that story to his little grandchildren does make him something of a character.  His name was George Anton Geisel.

Another Grosspop GEISEL story: his told the grandkids that he carried a bullet on his leg from the Franco-Prussian War. Then he would take a bullet out of his pants pocket and show it to them.   

Silly and engaging humor like that continues through the generations of my family.  His grandson (my Dad, Charlie) glued a dime onto a hatpin, and wore it, and called it his "dime-on-pin."

III. IDENTITIES

Uh, which Dorothea Koeberlein do you mean?  Our 2nd Great Grandma?  Her niece?  Her sister-in-law? 

Misidentifications happen, even among the most rigorous and sophisticated researchers.  Similar names in similar times can lead to confusion.  Expect it.

Here's an example: this is one of my misidentification. Hope you don't mind me saying, it was rigorously researched with the best information we had at the time.

The "Family Story" of Philomena Henn (with a MORAL at the end). - included information as we were told by our parents, aunts and uncles...

·         born: Philomena SUTTER (Husband to Joseph HENN),

·         Daughter of Margaretha-Philipina SUTTER,

·         Family came from "Alsace-Lorraine"

·         died: Dayton in 1941

·         Birthdate of 19 Jun 1859 - the funeral card stated she was born 10 years later, but that was a typo. She was age 91, not age 81 as stated on memorial card"

From the above family clues, we find this match from the LDS website

·         born: Philomena SUTTER

·         Born 19 Jun 1849

·         Town of Kogenheim, Alsace

Ta da!  A perfect fit!  

um...too bad it was wrong!

Subsequent research changed the picture, as we repeatedly encountered conflicting data as we solidified  the documentation  (you know, the usual: census, death certificates, marriage data, etc.) .

·         born: Philomena KLEIN

·         Daughter of the late John KLEIN and Margaretha-Philipina SUTTER (nee HUSSONG, married KLEIN, and re-married SUTTER)

·         Born 19 Jun 1859

·         Town of Bierbach, Saarland

·         The mother is of the family HUSSONG; which migrated to Germany from Lorraine

Ta da!  After lengthy, pains-taking research.  A much better fit!  Perfect? At least for now, I consider this correct!

Moral of the Story: 

The research can fit together perfectly, and be wrong.

IV. WILD BEASTS

My Escaped Beast: A dumb thing I did took a life of its own

Do you remember the "Star Trek: The Next Generation" episode where a new, independent life-form escapes from the hologram chamber?  Well, in a way, I did that.  

In a quick and frantic e-mail exchange, I relented and gave my GEDCOM file to my cousin's young daughter after her computer crashed and she lost her work.  Bad decision. Wha' ya think would happen next?:  She posted an open and free download access to it on the internet - errors and all, including the mis-ID on Philomena. Consequently, that error (and a slew of others) has escaped to cyber-space.

It is still out there with all its falsehoods, roaming wild, and making connections of its own.  I now refer to that file as  

"My Wild Beast GEDCOM."

Moral: 

Fiction-spreading Beasts are lurking in cyber-space!

V. GEOGRAPHY!!!!

Now let's talk about the "Geography of Europe"  We'll also stop discussing morals.

What town is your family from? In what country?
Hate to tell you this, but town name and country is not enough to go on. Google maps (great tool) is not enough to go on. Via Michelin (another great tool) is also not enough to go on.  I like Via Michelin a little better, as it will give you multiple choices and a drill-down when you enter a town name.

Example #1 My GGGM is from Mimbach, Bavaria, Germany.  Where exactly is that? Here are some choices:

1) Mimbach, Saarland  (CORRECT ANSWER - YES, it is) 49° 13' 60 N , 7° 16' 0 E

2) Mimbach, Bavaria/Bayern 49° 31' 0" N, 11° 52' 0" E (this was deceptively incorrect, as the above Mimbach, Saarland was part of Bavaria at the time of my GGGM, and showed up as "Bavaria" in legal documents. In other words, it was indeed Mimbach, Bavaria at the time, the town by that name is still there today, but a map of today's Bavaria no longer includes this region.)

3) Mimbach, Rheinland-Pfalz  near Wattweiler 49°14'0"N / 7°19'0"E

Source: http://www.viamichelin.com/web/Maps

Example #2 My GGGF is from Pfannenstiel, Germany.  Where is that?
here's a pic

 Here are some choices:

1) Pfannenstiel, Bavaria/Bayern;

2) Pfannenstiel, but not found in Google Maps nor Via Michelin and now actually called Fachsenfeld.  (CORRECT ANSWER - it's not on the map, but the locals will sometimes use the old Pfannenstiel name for this present-day neighborhood in the larger city of Aalen, Baden-Wuerttemmberg,)

The town name in the family bible, death certificate or military draft document, etc. is helpful.  It's a start, but modern maps may well confuse rather than clarify. It's up to you to figure out where it is.

VI. SPELLING

Now, give me that again:  How exactly do you spell your name?

Name changes happen all the time. It's easy and so common that personal records over time can look like different people. In my recordkeeping, names change from given to middle, sometimes the spelling will change, nicknames come in, and obvious misspellings.  Like baseball cards, I collect them all.  These are the  "AKAs" in my genealogy software package.

Zooming in to the front: the Morphing of Given Names 

Here are examples of  altered given names from my Tree.

•  MINNIE from Minneapolis, Wilhelmenia, Philomena, Phillipina
• PHILOMENA from Minnie from Phillipina (same person)
• WALTER from Valentine, Valtin
• JOHN from Johann, Johannes
• JOSEPH from Johann-Josef (Josef as middle name).

Zooming in to the rear: the Morphing of Surnames

Here are examples of altered surnames from my Tree.  Some of them are quite cringe-worthy!

1.      WAIZMANN into WEIZMAN, WEITZMAN, WAITZMAN 

2.      HUSSON (French) into HUSSONG (German)

3.      HUSSONG (German) into  HURFONG, HISSONG, HUSSUNG, HYSONG

4.      HENN into HENNE, HENNA, HENNI

5.      GRÖLL into GROELL, GRUELL, GROLL

6.      FRANZ into FRANTZ, FRANY

7.      HAUENSTEIN into HAUSTEIN, HOWENSTINE, HANENSTEIN

8.      MEUNIER into GÖLTZER, GOELTZER,

9.      GEISEL into GEASEL

Reasons for Surname name changes include

• Spelling convention from German to English   (WAIZMANN into WAITZMAN) 
• Spelling convention from French to German (HUSSON into HUSSONG)
•  Translation from French to German(MEUNIER into GOELTZER 
• in English, this means: miller, or "grinder of grain")
•  Conscious decision to differentiate legally from other family member (HENN into HENNE) 
• in this case, two brothers lived at the same address; their wives had the identical and unusual given names, leading to confusion to outsiders (like bill collectors).
•   Typed transcriptions of difficult handwriting (FRANZ into FRANY; HUSSONG into HURFONG; HAUENSTEIN into HANENSTEIN) - this is so common
•  Mispronunced and then spelled wrong (GEISEL into GEASEL) 

 Strange but true: Two diffferent Surnames with identical spelling

• WAITZMAN - a unique Old North Dayton name that is a morph of German WAIZMANN
• WAITZMAN - a Jewish Eastern European name associated with Ukraine, Russia, Poland

V. GENEALOGISTS ARE VERY CIVILIZED PEOPLE (hee hee)

The Personalities of Genealogists.  With this, you have been warned.

People rightly take a strong sense of ownership in their work, so not every researcher will be glad to be informed of your corrections or even your questions. The reality of life is that there are all sorts of personalities in this world.  In your pursuit of genealogy, you will find one of each.  We are all really nice people most of the time.

Yikes! Agglomerators: The Borg of Cyber-Space.  

You might prefer to steer clear of the on-line "agglomerators". These are people who do not actually research their data.  Nor do they vet the sources.  Instead, they are focused on amassing a really, really huge interconnected genfile.  They hungrily link into family trees regardless of the blood-relationship to themselves.  An in-law of an in-law is fair game, as they help connect different trees together.  "Resistance is futile; you will be assimilated." 

Recently, a dreaded "Agglomerator "sent me information from my "Wild Beast GEDCOM," and then asked me to add to it.

VI. THESE ARE THE ROCKS THAT WE LIFT TO LOOK 
There is no substitute to gum-shoeing.  You are more than just a compiler of work that others have done.  So you will go to courthouses, cemeteries, churches and visit old distant living cousins.  You will do primary research that no one else will do. Why? Because you are a detective, and that is what detectives do. This is honorable.

Web Research Spots that I like 

The Genealogy Blog sites - these folks are writing, not just compiling.  Much of it as at a level of sophistication that causes me to look in awe. Will I ever be worthy? 

·         LDS Family Search - free/  LDS Pilot Project - free.  I love the Mormons.

·         Southwest German Emigration site (for Baden-Wuerttemberg) - free (a good fit for me!)

·         Geneanet.com (French / German) free (another good fit for me)

·         That really large genealogy company that is gobbling up every small genealogy web service in sight.  I have very mixed feelings.  (Sorry).   On the downside, this can be a risky place to look for information because 

1. it is highly populated with beastly, error-laden trees that been put together by beginners, (they DO make it so easy for you to get started) 
2. they will try to charge you for information that can be found elsewhere for free. 
3. they have tried to sell me info that I (me! mysef!) had compiled and posted on their sites.  Arrrrgh!

On the BIG upside, it's a great place to connect with other researchers.  My cousin from the Arizona-Mexico border visited with us in Dayton recently with her family.  Our wonderful friendship blossomed from meeting at a website like this.

Well, there it is:  Wisdom or rant? You be the judge.

Happy Researching!   

All errors contained above are mine!